Had anyone cold war/s (not on talking terms & ignore each other) with your spouse? How long did it last? What was the trigger?
My ex and I had ‘cold wars’ all the time. They were usually about just general incompatibility. She wasn’t interested in the same things as me. Our schedules never added up. We rarely spent time together because we had separate interests. They usually lasted a day or two- but sometimes lasted as long as 2 weeks. It was a really unhealthy relationship, though, and I wouldn’t want that ever again.