Hate from his son

Updated on May 20, 2017 in Family / parents
4 on May 11, 2017
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My friend’s son who is going to be turning 11 this year always tells my friend that he hates him. He hates the way he talks to him, he hates when he gets him things, he hates when he doesn’t get him things… There is no pleasing him. I think a lot of this has to do with him and his ex (his son’s mother) splitting up. She cheated on him and then left the state with some other guy. So the son is blaming him. What can he do to help his son see it isn’t his fault?

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0 on May 16, 2017
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At eleven years old a child is quite young still- but he’s old enough to be spoken to honestly. It may be a good idea for the dad to sit down with his son and really attempt to explain the situation in truthful terms. Tell him that he understands his anger, and that it’s entirely natural and OK to feel upset about the situation- but respect is also necessary for everyone’s happiness in the household. Therapy during situations like these can also prove very beneficial.

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0 on May 19, 2017
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Is he still in contact with his mom at all? Maybe if he was able to talk to his mom more often he would feel better. Maybe the dad should try contacting the mom to explain to her that her son needs her in his life. No child wants to feel abandon, so I think it might help if he was in touch with both parents.

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0 on May 19, 2017
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Hi stephisthebest, I think the mom has polluted the mind of the young boy with some negative words and maybe she wants the boy back. Well, what i will suggest is for him to tell the boy the whole truth.

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0 on May 20, 2017
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Ohh! very sad. Explain him about him’s mom honestly. Now he can understand. Go outside like shopping mall, park and watch movie togeather daily basis. I think through this he would be fresh mind and he will forget her.

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