How many dates does it take before you’re officially a couple?

Updated on June 6, 2017 in Relationship
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My girlfriend and I went on 8 dates before we had the “what are we?” talk. It seems like such a complicated discussion these days. No one knows what to label their relationship as. How many dates do you think it takes before you become an official ‘couple’. And how do you bring up the conversation when you do decide it’s time to have it?

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I think once you sleep with someone it’s time to discuss “what you are”. At that point you’re exposing yourself to the other person in a really vulnerable way and I think it’s fair to know if they’re taking it seriously or if they are seeing other people. Not just from an emotional perspective, but from a sexual health perspective as well- you should be aware of your partner’s activity outside of you.

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Personally after 2 dates- in my mind- we’re dating. I think if you go on a second date with me it shows that you are interested in something more serious than a single date. I’ll usually bring that up and be upfront with the person I’m dating. I’m not comfortable with people I’m seeing- seeing other people, and I’ll let them know that.

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