I have been married for more than 5 years and have 2 young kids. Hubby likes to drink and only come rhymes home at 2-3am in the morning. This happens at least once a week and has been recurring for the last 2 years. Initially, I got very upset and would alway quarrel with him over his behavior. I simply could not understand why he needed to drink so often (at least twice a week) and staying out till wee hours (at least once a week). I often feared he would get into a car accident (yes, he would still drive home after the drinks) or worse still, knock someone. I worry about his health from the constant drinking.
His rationale was for networking, distressing, etc etc.
I tolerated and decided not to quarrel with him anymore as we just could not see each other’s point. In Oct, he came back at 3.30am. I began to wonder if he was having an affair outside. I emailed him as I knew we would end up quarreling if I asked him straight in the face. He didn’t reply me.
I am totally helpless now on next steps. Appreciate some kind advice. Thank you.