How do I get my ex back when he blames me for everything?
I think it’s fair to say that most breakups make both people feel pretty rotten right?
Nobody enjoys being dumped and no-one really enjoys hurting someone they love either….
I thought about this for a while and there are two main reasons a person might blame you for a breakup, firstly they are disappointed or secondly they feel guilty.
An ex-boyfriend might feel disappointed if they feel you let them down when something like cheating happened; alternatively, an ex might feel guilty that they hurt your feelings during the breakup.
Dumping you can leave your ex-boyfriend feeling guilty for a long time afterward especially if they can see you are suffering from the news.
He will convince himself that you were was so badly behaved that he was forced to breakup with you, this means that he can feel like the victim!
That’s crazy behavior right??!
But it makes sense when you think about it…..because victims don’t have to feel guilty or accept any blame for their own faults either, it means they can have a clear conscience!
Even the most down to Earth guy can have this kind of a reaction to a breakup, in fact it is really common because nice guys are even more likely to feel guilty for hurting your feelings