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Some people prefer not to know. I have a friend who tells all her friends that if any of us see her husband with someone else, she doesn’t want to know because it will break her heart totally.
Some people already know, they are just not ready to do anything or to face it.
I suggest you spend some time with your friend, supporting her as a new mother and a friend. If she already knows, she will appreciate the support. If she wants to share her burden, she will tell you. If she doesn’t know now, knowing later won’t hurt.
If you can’t stand doing anything, you can 1) march up to the husband and tell him off; 2) swing by and say hi sweetly, and ask how the new baby is and then look at the other woman coolly up and down; 3) follow up with a big bouquet of flowers or stuffed toy to your friend with a gift tag that her husband cannot miss.
If he cares, he will be more careful or watchful of his behavior. If he doesn’t care, she knowing won’t change a thing and will hurt her more.